Swinger Everyone likes to be fresh, but what was once “fresh” will eventually become “boring
People have a natural yearning for the forbidden, yet after tasting it they always find that the forbidden fruit may not be as sweet as they thought. For example, the first night, such as alcohol. When I was studying in the United States, I found a funny thing, the 21st birthday is a very important day for young people, because after the age of 21 Americans can legally drink, so that a birthday is usually a big event, and then a drunkenness. Because there is a clear rule that young people under the age of 21 cannot drink alcohol, so men and women under the age of 21, no matter who they are, love to drink. They are very excited about the mention of alcohol, as they are befriending their older siblings to send them wine, sneaking out to buy wine at dark stores, and shamelessly going to private parties to get drunk. On the contrary, in China, there is no age limit for drinking, and college students do not have that kind of fervor for drinking. This is the charm of the taboo, it is, the more mysterious, not allowed to touch, the more people are eager inside.
Wife swapping is also the same reason. Wife swapping is a taboo in this faithful monogamous society, so people are more interested. But is wife swapping really that cool? The movie “The Love Swap Adventure” tells you: no. Watching your wife’s style displayed under another man, you will also have a sense of frustration; watching your husband bow down to other women, you will also be jealous of the fire. And their own, facing perhaps not as beautiful as his wife’s woman, there may even be sexual interest can not be raised. Even as the hero, lucky to meet a sexy young beauty, despite their best flattery, still may be in the competition of many men in the goddess mercilessly rejected. Of course, you may really sleep with the goddess, but you will eventually find that your wife is the one who knows you best and is most suitable for you, otherwise do you think you married at the youngest and most beautiful and lived together for so many years on the spur of the moment?
The climax is not only sex can bring you. The taboo adds weight to it. Ask yourself, your happiest moment, is really related to sex?Each pair in “The Love Swap Adventure” is so disappointed with their lives that they come to join a wife swap club. Those with money, those without; strong men and weak women, strong women and weak men; beautiful looking, ugly looking, all cannot escape this disappointment. Although each has its own troubles, there are two common reasons.
The first and foremost is that Shaohua is no longer. The fifty-something age, the son and daughter have gone out to flirt with girls and men, they have long ceased to be young. The sagging skin, the smell, no one pays attention to you anymore, and you have to serve old age. Even if you are young is the best girl in Denmark body, is the gymnastics champion, old is also withered dried flowers.
The second is that life is repetitive and boring. The male protagonist of the whole film a dead face, young love of music, but old to work in the heating equipment company, he was disappointed in himself, disappointed in life. He longs for freshness.
He feels that the young girl gave him the vitality and vitality of life, unbeknownst to him, the girl has only sympathy for the negative him, so he went to great lengths not to hold the beauty, but at the end of the day, he ran into the girl and another flirtatious old man lusting for death. Want to let the metrosexual beauty girls save the disappointed you? You’re wrong, they will only make you more disappointed in yourself. You can not attract yourself, but also trying to attract others?
Not to mention that the “fresh” beauty may also be your own imagination. The hero finally arrives in New York as described by the girl, drinks coffee, skates, and strikes up a conversation before he suddenly realizes how boring it all is, no more interesting than the 20 years of his life in Denmark that has remained the same.
Life is boring after a long time. Everyone likes to be fresh, but what was once “fresh” will eventually become boring. The wife change will not save you, the city change will not save you, can save you only yourself. Have an active heart, read more books and movies, learn more and play more.
Calligraphy is so beautiful, have you practiced it?
Dance so beautiful, you have tried to learn?
Zhou Yi is so mysterious, have you read and understood it?
Yoga is so beautiful, you persevere?
There are so many movies, have you seen them all?
There are so many beautiful scenery, have you enjoyed them all?
There are many interesting things in this world, enough to fill your short life.
